Stop comparing yourself to your older brother and stop trying to be like him. Embrace your own personality and learn to make your own decisions.

 drop the wine glass, & stop putting out so early - sober self

 Think about the future not just today, what happens today will impact on your future!

 You waited for him, and now he's waiting for you... To walk down the aisle

 Although your heart may be broken, you'll look back and realize he wasn't worth it in the first place.

 Don't accept to date her just because you're 19, has never been kissed or had a boyfriend. You will suffer, lose your parents trust, lose faith in God and will not know how to get out of it. Love yourself first and just wait patiently.

 Always choose the positive and the happy take on things. Dark and angry is really not cool as they might have you believe. The people who hurt you, forgive them. And I know you don't, but seriously listen to mom. I don't know how she does it, but the woman is always right! Happiness is a choice ok.

 What does gender matter? You've been taught that because it's what your parents and grandparents were taught. Times are changing and your parents will love you no matter who you fall in love with. Don't let love slip through your fingers.