Follow your dreams, even if they sound crazy to some one else. She loved you, even if after you break up she doesn't. Don't let anyone make you think different! Don't let anyone make you feel different! You're great just like you are.

 " relax, take it easy". There'll be time for everything. Go slowly.

 At some point, you are going to think that you want a motorcycle. Buy a convertible instead.

 Don't worry about the choices you haven't made. You don't know jack. Accept it.

 slow down. life isn't a race! you'll get where you're supposed to be. enjoy where you are for now.

 He is going to change when he leaves and it will take you three years to realize that you fell in love with a lie. Love yourself enough to say "no" and stay single for a while longer.

 Take the time to teach your children how to do things, instead of just doing them yourself.

 Don't pull away from your family when they are ill. I know that you are scared of losing them, but be there for them.