She'll tell you it should have been you to die. You'll believe her for a long time, until one day, you become a mom. You'll realize that maybe mom's don't know everything (and she'll never remember saying it, or at least she'll never admit it). Your life is worth living.

 Don't worry about what others think about you. Put yourself out there. Be brave and don't be afraid to take risks. Learn to be loved by God before you worry about being loved by a silly boy.

 Stop holding so many gruges! It hurts you more than any one else. And things you think were such a big deal back than dont matter to you now.

 It'll get better. Pain fades and memory fades. Time is an amazing thing. I know it seems like you want to die right now, but trust me, there's a lot more for you to do before you're through.

 Be patient. Your capacity to love is great, but all those guys can't see that. They're just missing out. You will meet an amazing guy who will change you for the better and love you just as much, if not more than you love him and you'll never look back.

 Don't do it. The hangover will only last a day but the regret will last a lifetime.

 You see that cute guy sitting across from you in class right now? Go talk to him because he's the one.

 Get out of that relationship now! He may give you free alcohol and pills but he also has all the signs of schizophrenia. You end up beating the addiction but it's a struggle pretty much every day. But hey, you own at college and realize what you're good at.