He really wasn't worth losing a friend over !

 When J tells you to move to the dorms because you'll be stuck if you don't, run as fast as you can to them. You're going to wind up a college drop out and stuck, if you don't. You're a smart girl, don't be stupid.

 It gets better. Don't give up hope. He's only a good friend and that is all you'll ever need.

 Accept who you are now. It makes being who you are later a lot less complicated.

 Always wear a condom. Valtrex is expensive

 He wasn't ever worth your tears.

 Please don't ever try painkillers. They are not worth it. You won't realize it until its too late.

 Don't make a foolish mistake, he's not worth it. Trust me, hold onto your innocence, you will surely want it back.