Don't let him abuse you...ever

 don't say anything to your ex-girlfriend/love of your life's friends. It's a bad idea.

 Don't accuse him of stealing her wallet. You'll never be the same.

 Stop being scared, let her in. Face it, you love her.

 you should have never drank that night. you should have never gotten in the car.

 Stop worrying. He's the one.

 Even though you lost your virginity to the wrong guy (and lied about it) it made you a stronger person in the long run and made you move on from that asshole.

 Its okay to completely breakdown but then you have to seriously let it go. Seriously.