It's all going to end up ok.

 Don't ever be self conscious. It's not worth caring what other people think.

 Don't cheat on him. It wasn't worth it.

 Remember that awkward conversation mommy told you about, and she said to wait until the right man comes along, really listen to her. She's not just saying things just to sound annoying, she knows what she's talking about. Listen to your parents. They love you.

 Please stop doing drugs. It'll ruin your life.

 The past two years have been....well, a roller-coaster. But no matter what he did to you, he's not going to hurt you anymore. You are not a victim. You are so admirably strong! The sooner you let go of the pain, the sooner you will repect yourself again.

 Remember those girls that beat you up in middle school? They work for you. They're getting fired today. You get to fire ALL three of them.

 It doesn't matter that you are 18 and still have never had a boyfriend. Your husband will come along soon. Your life will be everything you dared dream. And your kids are pretty great too.