He is going to change when he leaves and it will take you three years to realize that you fell in love with a lie. Love yourself enough to say "no" and stay single for a while longer.

 Take the time to teach your children how to do things, instead of just doing them yourself.

 Don't pull away from your family when they are ill. I know that you are scared of losing them, but be there for them.

 Listen to George Carlin.

 Your mother has mental illness. It's not all your fault. You will grow up to be a wonderful person and help many people. Be kind to yourself.

 Don't make fun of people's hopes and dreams. It's often all that they have to keep them going.

 Stop making decisions based on what you imagine other people will think about you.

 You can't fix everything, but almost everything can fix itself if it's given time.